Sunday, January 6, 2019

the advice a mother told her son(so touching)

Mummy’s boy, you are now a man.
you will have a new mother, a new cook and
a new person to share all your secrets with.
It will no longer be me but her.
Love your new mum even more than you
love me. Before you walk into her arms
forever, let me give you some words to
guide you.
There was a day I was arguing with your
We were screaming, Tempers were high. I
was angry and He was angry. Then I called
him an idiot! He was shocked,
He looked at me asking
how dare I call him that. Immediately I
started calling him idiot, fool, stupid, crazy; I
called him all sort of name.
Guess what he did? He didn’t raise his hands
to hit me. He just walked away, banging the
door as he went out.
My Son, If your father had hit me and
destroyed my eyes, how will you feel sitting
here with me today? How will you regard
him as your father?
Would you have been proud of him or
you be blaming me for calling him names?
Never hit your wife! No matter the
just walk away and things will be normal.
Whenever she offends you, think of this
story I
just told you, it could have been your mum!
After he left, I was filled with guilt. We slept
on same bed that night and I went to him
the next day.
I pleaded with him, I did all I could to show
am sorry and he forgave me. That day I
cooked his favourite food, yes you know he
loves Pounded yam & Vegetable soup right?
After that day, I never called him names, my
respect for him was ten times stronger.
There is something very important you must
always do, my son listen very carefully,
defend your wife. When she is under
pressure, stand by her. If your friends hates
her, it is your duty to make them see her as
a Queen. Your Uncle, I mean Uncle Yusuf,
never liked me.
But Ur father was always supportive until
his perception changed.
There was a day your Father was going to
host the owner of his company and friends.
They were three of them.
That day I was in the
kitchen cooking for them and your father
went to buy drinks.
When the table was set and food was
Everyone started eating. Then I
remembered I did not add salt in the food. I
was embarrassed.
Your father tasted the food and looked at
me. He immediately turned to the guests. He
told them that he instructed his wife last
month not to add salt whenever she is
cooking because of some problem with his
He said it in a funny way and everyone
The guests understood and he asked me to
bring salt and everyone added according to
their taste. He managed to eat the food
without salt.
After the guest left, he went on his knees
asked God to forgive him for lying.
Your wife is like a baby, sometimes she
know what to say or do. Stand up and speak
for her!
Now let me talk to you about Sex. You see
is a wonderful thing.
Do not be surprised if your wife enjoy and
need Sex more than you do.
There were days, I needed Sex more than
your father and there were days he needed
it more than me but the important thing is
to always try to satisfy the other when they
need you.
Don’t always think of your self.
There was a time things were hard and I
needed to do two jobs to support your
One night I was so tired. When I got to bed
he was in the mood. He try to make love to
me and I didn’t refuse him. I was tired but I
felt I needed to be there when he needs me.
When he tried undressing me, he saw my
look and he stopped. He asked what was
wrong and I said nothing. But he
understand me better.
He stopped and then started telling me
stories until I fell asleep.
My son, Sex is best enjoyed when the two
parties are physically and mentally ready for
Sometimes, read your wife and understand
Make it a habit to go anywhere with your
wife. Beside your job, move around with
If anyone invite you to his house and told
you not to come with your wife then be very
Use wisdom.
I know you love mummy… I know you will
tell me all your problems. But now things will
be different.
Let your wife be the first to know before
me. Let her be the first to see before me.
When you have problems with her don’t run
to me immediately.
Wait for a day to pass and then talk to her
about it. Pray about it.
Report her to nobody but talk issues out
within yourself.
Finally, don’t forget to come and visit me
your wife every month!
I know you will have a happy home.
You will always be mummy’s boy.

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